general guideline in solving conflicts.

Assalamualaikum. Dear readers!

Yea. We meet again! Alhamdulillah. In this entry, I want to share with you guys on the conflicts which I faced before with my housemates and how we solve our conflicts. Maybe you guys can use it as a guidelines. Hope so. :)

As life goes on, the potential for conflicts happen increase maybe day by day. Haha yea sure why not? Right?

So here it goes, I still remembered when the conflict happened. That time was in my final year (diploma). All my housemate were in same courses and we lived in same college.

In our lives, some of us need pet as their friends. Same goes to me. I am cat lover. My housemates also except julia(not real name). In my college, there had a cat who love to spend his time in our house. It doesn't matter for my housemates and I except Julia. For her, its kind of big disaster. She really don't like cat.

Kaka and Kikin

I don't know why. Sometimes, I felt really annoyed with her. I don't know what the reason behind it. It just a cute cat with white fur. We called it Serafina. Just nice name. Haha you know what? Its really friendly towards us. And yes. We love it! Haha

The conflict getting worst during examination. Julia said that she didn't want any cat around her when she start studying. How can we handle it? No way man!

We getting tense with her behavior. Yes. We need to do something. It is not a solution. We need to discuss and solve it! So what we do to solve it? Hhe here is the step which you should to follow. Maybe this will help you to resolve conflict.

SIX STEPS PROBLEM SOLVING.(ask yourself first!)

# what is the conflict?
# what are the facts?
# what is the overall objectives?
# what are some possible solutions?
# what is the best solution?
# did the solution work?

"A problem well stated is half solved"
                                             - Charles F. Kettering


We have to identify what is the conflicts arise? Regarding to my problem, the conflicts is my friend Julia too afraid of cat.  The facts is Julia need to discuss with us why she become like that.  Yes. Of course the answer is difficult to answer. But why don't we try it? Right? The objectives is too clear. We want Julia to get used with the cat and throw away her phobia on cat.  Then, we took possible solution to overcome it. We try to make Julia get used with the cat. Luckily she manage it! The cat is too friendly with her.  We ask Julia to hold the cat. She can feel the feeling when touch it. She loves it but yeah she has frightened feeling but its okay if she want to try it. The solution really work! Haha I believe she can do it.

Actually conflict can be prevented such as we discuss problems before we escalate to a conflicts.  This is a tip from Thomas Jefferson. He advised that before you speak when angry, count to 10 ( or to 100 when very angry). This is good advice. In islam, when we angry we should take wudu' to decrease our anger. Insyaallah it will help us. Once when we relaxed and more in control, you can respond more appropriately.

"Conflicts is the beginning of consciousness.''
                                                        - M. Esther Harding-

Thanks for reading my blog. Insyaallah it will bring beneficial for us not just in world but hereafter as well. Insyaallah.

Alhamdulillah.

review on K-Colly advertisement

assalamualaikum..

Dear readers, thanks a lot for reading my blog! I think I'm not too late to wish HAPPY DEEPAVALI. Have a nice day to celebrate it! Have you ever seen an advertisement about K- Colly?

Yes, I know that most of us may be worry what kind of collagen drink that is good for our body.  We never know which of product is good out there because there are so many many product. Hehe We never know the effectiveness of the product and whether it safe or not. One month ago, my skin had been affected an allergic. Then, I search on web which product should I try to repair my skin. So I had read an advertisement about K-Colly.  Yes, one of my friend also consumed it and its work! Haha I had read in which K-COlly have a nano particles that can easily absorbed by our body. That's why the effect can be seen in 3 days if we really follow the instructions. Very interesting right?? Haha so I've decide. I bought it. :)

Please take note: 

Avoid caffeine in your daily intake! If you want to get more effective. 

The ingredients in K-Colly contains a natural and potent beauty essence and rich in synergistic made up of Hydrolyzed Marine Collagen, Astaxanthin, Coenzyme Q10, L-Glutathione Berry Plus, Pure Pearl Powder, Hyaluron and Vitamins for glowing shining skin and baby-like pinkish complexion. It also excellent digestibility and at help support healhty metabolism and the immune system.

Who is K-Colly Sweet17 for?

For someone who really desires to get noticeable improvement from their damaged skin to a shining and glowing healthy looking skin.

Suggested usage:

* take half scoop K-Colly Sweet17 into your mouth. Enjoy delicious taste! 

* consume K-colly Sweet17 early in the morning before breakfast and at bedtime. 

Precautions:

* drink 3 litre of mineral water a day to improve effectiveness.

*  keep in dry place

And make sure it is ORIGINAL! 

I had consumed K-Colly about a month. Yeah. I can see and feel the effect. Its really worth and its works! Haha  I can feel my skin healthier than before. So here is my picture before and after I consumed it!

Can you see the different? Haha I also don't believe it! No filter okay. Haha thanks to the K-Colly's advertisement. The advertisement really attract my interest to buy. Korean collagen? K-pop? Hikhik so for those who desires to improve their skin to be more glowing such korean artists Jang Nara, Ji Hyo, kwang soo and many more just try this! Insyaallah and don't ever forget to drink more more more water when you consume it. Your body really need water! 

Thanks for reading my blog.

Alhamdullillah

The expert motivational and counsellor- Cr. Hj. Hushim Hj. Salleh

Assalamualaikum guys..

Actually for this entry, I want to share my story with you guys.  One month ago, I attended seminar which was held in UiTM Merbok. Frankly, at the first, i really don't know why we have to attend the seminar.I'm tired at that time. Maybe because i have to wake up early in the morning. But after that, yeah sometimes we have to fill our heart which something that spiritual. It would let us to remember Allah and that's our duty as a khalifah in world. I'm no a perfect one but I try to be a perfect! Amin
I shocked! Guess what? Do you know who is Cr. Hj. Hushim Hj. Salleh? Let me introduce you the most successful one...

Cr. Hj.  Hushim Hj. Salleh
The expert motivator and counsellor

He was invited to my university to give us talk about 'Excellence in Academic and Personal'.  I think I made a good decision to come for seminar. He looks really great, motivated and succesful. I admit it! I really adore him. I don't felt bored at all. Actually he was very funny and good on attracting the audience. Nowadays,it is not easy to attract Gen-Y attention but he do a great job.

Alhamdulillah! It was really great. I gained more knowledge at there with Tuan Haji Hushim. He also share about how to manage our time properly, early marriage during studies, tips to be successful and so on. I feel more motivate and I have to change from now on. It's not to late for me to change right? Then, after the seminar ended, I bought this book. I need it. The title of the book is '10 Elements to Achive a Successful'. The price is only RM10. SO, what you waiting for?? Grab it now!

The contents on this book will benefit us a lot. It's comprises in term of our mission, confident, sacrifice,learn from mistake,time management and financial, and many more. Insyaallah this book will help us to achieve our mission. Not only success in world but in the hereafter as well. Usually as a student, we are willing to spend our money to buy cloth, entertainment, gadjets and many more but why don't we spend our money to buy a book? Insyaallah Allah will gives us reward and grace! Here's another books from Tuan Haji Hushim. Take a look :)

Hushim Motivational & Couselling Consultancy
www.hushimmotivational.blogspot.com

Thanks for reading my blog.
Wait for the next blog!
Alhamdulillah.

integrity and ethics. What it is??

assalamualaikum..

Thanks again for visiting my blog. Insyaallah i'll always update my blog. Pray for me okay? hee

So, what actually do you understand about integrity and ethics? What is your opinion regarding to our our malaysian ethics and integrity??

Let's me tell you what is integrity and ethics. Integrity means being good and honest so that you can approve of yourself. It's actually relate to our strong principles to being honest such as good character, morals, sincerity, truthfulness and trustworthies. When we act with integrity, all those kind of corruption, crime and malpractice activity will be avoid. A policeman must act will full of integrity to fulfill their job. They must follow all the rules. If they don't act with integrity, everyone in the country may be affected. It will affect our society as well.All people will do crimes, corruption and so on. So, integrity play an important role in developing people towards right values. :)

Then, what about ethics itself?? In simple way, ethics refers to moral principles that governs a person 's or a group behavior. Usually it's relate to a specific group or people to accept standard of right and wrong. In our daily life, we always make a decision for example, at university,  at school, all those kind of action.  Then, that decision will show whether it is right or not. Sometime, we made a mistake from our decision and we have to accept it. All human always made mistake.It's a lesson for us and we should learnt from it. These decisions actually teach us on how to treat a people, our environment and public property. We will become more aware with our decision. In addition, ethics and morals are quite similiar to each other. If we have a good moral in our action it will reflects who we are in the future. Think first before we do something!

Now, let's talk about our malaysian ethic and integrity. Currently, Malaysia growth rapidly towars mission 2020. But don't you think our malaysian ethic and integrity? Did you have seen or read about our malaysian today? Everyday we seen on television is all about crime, corruption, demonstrated and so on. Grow up guys! Why those people or person acted that way? Maybe our malaysian still did not understand what is ethics and integrity. So, we have to start now. Why not we start to practice the value of ethics and integrity.

                                                                                                                                                          

For me, a person with integrity and ethics will makes a choice based on the moral values and principles. Try to learn it again and again when we makes mistakes. All those thing will let you to grow with ethics and integrity.  

Thanks for visiting my blog.

Have a bless day. Insyaallah

Alhamdulillah

My family and my close relatives. #bloodyrelation

Assalamualaikum..
Thanks for reading my blogs. So for this entry I'm going to tell you about my family and my close relatives. For me, family and relatives relation are really important for us because they are the one who are really loves us, help us in any situation and never leaves us no matter what happens. Its BLOODY RELATIONS!

 My family consists of only five member; my father, my mother, two little brother and me. I'm the only daughter in my family. My parent lives in Puchong,Selangor. I'm staying with my grandparent since I was a baby.

My father's name is Mhd Kassim bin Zakaria and he was born in Negeri Sembilan. My father passed away about 9 years ago because of heart attack. That time when I was 12 years old. I still remembered I was prepared for my UPSR examination next two weeks. I really shocked about his death. I really want to spend as much time with him as I could. Allah loves him more than I am. He's opposite with my mother. We had same interest that's why we got along as well. The memories still remains in my mind.

My mother's named Zahairah Bt Ariffin. I called her "Mak" slightly different with my little brother because he called my mother "mama". Maybe the reason is he was born in Kl.haha She is my best friend, my mother, my strength and my happiness. She struggled too much to raise my siblings and I. Until right now. She's really concern about my life such who is my friend? Where I am going?. Those kind of thing always in her mind. We are getting much closer after my father passed away. Sometimes we always ask for advice to each other on a certain thing.

I have two little brother which is Amirul Baharin and the eldest one is Alif Amirul Daniel. Both of them like to fight and sometimes I got involved too.Heee I just met them during semester breaks or holiday only. I don't spent much time with them because i'm stayed in Perak.

My grandparent raised me since I was a baby. My mother works in Kl so that my late grandmother take care on me. They guided me in a good way. They are my loves and my life. My grandmother passed away after a year of my father death. They raised me very very well. My grandfather raise me until now. Even he looks very old he still my hero and strong man in my heart. He's so special for me! No one can replace him.

Actually I'm really close with my mother's side of family. I have uncles and aunties who are always be with me no matter what happen. We always loved spending time such as eating together. Among all of my aunties, I really closed with my aunt Cu. She's the most sporting aunties and she understand me a lot. She really care about me most of the time. Then, among of all my uncles, I really like to be close with uncle Lop. He's my mother's oldest brother. He's a policemen and he's a strict. Even though he is strict but always concern about me. He really understand who I am. Sometimes, he allowed me to do things that my mother did not allowed me. He he

I growing up with my cousin. My grandparent just not only take care on me but my cousin as well. I always be closed with my cousin, Anizan. Our names quite similar, Amiza and Anizan. Sometimes people think that we are twin. Haha We are same age as well and our family also told us we were exactly alike.

Too many things to tell you.he he I thinks this is enough for you. Later I will tells you more about my family. Yeah for me we should always treats our family and relatives nicely because they are the person who relates with us through blood. Bloody relations.

Loves yourself, loves family, loves grandparent and loves your relatives.

Thanks for reading my blog.
Alhamdulillah.

My plans for next five years.

                                       

Assalamualaikum..

Hmm.. actually these topic is not easy as I think. You know why?? Because it's involve my future life in which I never plans it before this! After I further my studies, I realized about it! I need to think about my future. Yeahhh.. So here we go...

  In the next five years it would be the most exciting and satisfying years of my life.I have always been a dreamer. I have always dreaming what I will look like in the future. Am i will be able to be a successful person? Insyaallah. I always ask Allah to ease everything i do. So, in order for me to achieve all my dreams, I should have plans! That's really looks great. These plan actually can be a guidelines for me to achieve my goals! I have to prepare my plans and where I will  be in the next 5 years. In the next 5 years, I will furher my studies in abroad! When I was young, I really want to study in overseas because I think it's really look great and impressive! Studies in abroad actually will gives me a new environment, new knowledge and of course a new challenges. After I had finished and already complete my master, I will find a job. Another plan that I want to do in my life is involve in business. I really like to do business which is relates to the photography, wedding and so on.hee
 
   Currently, i'm doing my Bachelor in Islamic Banking in UiTM Sungai Petani in Merbok. In order for me to ensure that my plans will work I must grabs all opportunity starts from now on.  I have to improve my communication skill, confident levels and most importantly, I have to compete in my studies. I have to get involve with a positive people around me and learn from them how to become a successful person. :)

  How I manages my free time?? Actually i'm not a person who is able to manage my time properly. I'm always wasting my time with reading blogs, sleeping, cooking and so on. I'm just an ordinary person who always do mistake. I really realized it! So, I have to move on. Come on, you can do it. When I reallized  how the time is really really important i start to change my ways. I have to. I take a steps on reading books likes novel, magazines and blogs. I gained a lot of knowledge by reading. When I have free time, I always cook especially village cuisine.

 In conclusion, a five years plan actually will helped you to look on what is going on in our daily life. It's really important. We have to make our own decision and consider  the impact that we will take. It also can influences us on how we will become for the future. Take the opportunity and experiences and remember don't miss it! hehe See you for the next entry.Coming soon.